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Old 08-17-2018, 03:10 PM
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Default If a provider is being pimped out isnít it safe to assume itís the pimps email addy?

This seems like such a waste of resources seeing as someone is being paid to oversee this task.

I just received an email from the London abused woman centre saying they’re emailing all LL & BP ads every week and “we can help with housing and referrals” etc.

My LL ad is a 6000 word essay, I have a rigorous screening process and I’ve had the same contact info for years, so I’m not sure what part of that screams “drug addicted homeless trick” but if I were a pimped out trick...wouldn’t I not be allowed access to a phone and email?

I don’t know, I feel the money wasted on busting johns and emailing providers would be far better spent if it were going towards say a high end drug rehabilitation centre and some book keeping/budgeting/life skills classes for the women who would benefit from those services.


I don’t mean to rant, just reading that email just reminded me of a meme of Ralph Higgins from the simpsons saying “I’m helping!” While actually doing nothing at all.
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Old 08-17-2018, 04:18 PM
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So true.
Even women being pimped out aren't doing so chained to a bed with a gun to their head. A lot of them work for a "boyfriend" whom they love and would never do anything bad to hurt them.
It's more of a "cult style" brainwashing. They will even go out and recruit other girls for their pimp/boyfriend so he can make more money.
It's all part of the same problem. This "Nordic Model" serves politicians and does nothing for the women.Decriminalize, license it, tax it and use that to fund REAL services that actually help women if they want it.
Stop screaming at them "You are being abused but you are too stupid to know it".
Instead tell them, "You are a strong woman running your own business, that's amazing. If you ever need help or want some more education in running a small business give us a call".
People will naturally seek help when they need it, if they know someone who they trust, respect and don't feel judged by.
If these people offering "help" are doing so from a judgemental, ignorant and arrogant soap box, it's not going to work.
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Old 08-19-2018, 08:49 AM
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I partially disagree only because in my opinion licensing and regulating it at this point would just push it further underground and create more problems than anything. Thereís way too much stigma towards providers in the industry so many wonít willingly register their information.

I think the money being spent on paying for everyday john stings, john classes, any money Megan Walker is paid, and any funds going towards paying people to cruise escort sites emailing everyone is utterly wasteful and would be enough to fund useful programs.

Just leaving everyone partaking in this industry alone (except the quite obvious abusers such as pimps and dealers, NOT guys just responding to ads) would do a lot to destigmatize the industry. When sex work is aknowledged by the majority as what it is, a career in customer service and physical labour, then it can be safely regulated and require bullshit licenses and training courses to get said licences etc.

I dunno, I think the timing of the email highlighting an epic lack of proper use of funds just infuriated me because LAWC has access to public funds for the stupidest of virtue signaling BS and meanwhile I just added ANOVO earlier that day to my short list of charities to donate to this year because they utilize the funds they get to actually help those who need help but also acknowledge sex work is work, and that if dudes seeking the services of a sex worker is wrong than so is someone seeking the work of a drywaller rather than exploit sex workers to get publicity and funding which is exactly what LAWC does, exploits.

Anyways, I just needed to rant and thereís no way I was going to go off on my Facebook about this so your site because victim to my ramblings.
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Old 08-19-2018, 10:10 AM
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This seems like such a waste of resources seeing as someone is being paid to oversee this task.

I just received an email from the London abused woman centre saying theyíre emailing all LL & BP ads every week and ďwe can help with housing and referralsĒ etc.

My LL ad is a 6000 word essay, I have a rigorous screening process and Iíve had the same contact info for years, so Iím not sure what part of that screams ďdrug addicted homeless trickĒ but if I were a pimped out trick...wouldnít I not be allowed access to a phone and email?

I donít know, I feel the money wasted on busting johns and emailing providers would be far better spent if it were going towards say a high end drug rehabilitation centre and some book keeping/budgeting/life skills classes for the women who would benefit from those services.


I donít mean to rant, just reading that email just reminded me of a meme of Ralph Higgins from the simpsons saying ďIím helping!Ē While actually doing nothing at all.
I received an email from them last month - they are not looking to help ladies and their emails are out of line. I replied with this:

This is my one and only email asking you to STOP emailing or contacting me in any manner. If you continue to do so, I will take necessary action to ensure that you do STOP contacting me.
Do not share my email or contact in any forum or database that you may maintain or contribute too as I will consider it an invasion of privacy.


I suggest anyone who receives an email from them do the same, this is a we are all victims agency and they don't care about any of us and definitely don't believe any of us willingly do this.

I don't get how in todays day and age, one would actually assume we are all victims. If they actually put their resources together to deal with the victimized or forced people they might actually do some good.
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Old 08-19-2018, 01:25 PM
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I received an email from them last month - they are not looking to help ladies and their emails are out of line. I replied with this:

This is my one and only email asking you to STOP emailing or contacting me in any manner. If you continue to do so, I will take necessary action to ensure that you do STOP contacting me.
Do not share my email or contact in any forum or database that you may maintain or contribute too as I will consider it an invasion of privacy.

Megan Walker would just assume that either your pimp wrote that reply or that you did under extreme duress from him.
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Old 10-23-2018, 10:40 AM
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I like your reply, Emily; I too have received 2 emails - about a month ago and asked them to stop contacting me.
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